I've never really thought of this, but your location really does affect the expectations put on you. I decided to pick two of the most contrary parts of my life to compare. I'm going to look at myself as a basketball player and a musician/writer. Let's discuss basketball first. As most of you know, the girls basketball coaches at Episcopal are Coach Boo and Coach K. Their coaching style is intense (probably having to do with them both also being football coaches). During practices and games, there is no pouting, no getting upset, and no emotion, unless of course, it's out of enthusiasm for the game. As a basketball player, you are expected to be tough and have a mental block from all other things. Focus is key.
On the other, hand I'm also a musician and write poetry. I know, it' s pretty different from what I just described. In both of these art forms, you are encouraged to let go of your emotions and express how you feel. Anything, I've been holding inside of me gets to come out when I'm writing or performing. It creates a good balance between basketball and my arts. I'm glad I get to be a part of both sides and to be able to be mentally tough, but also let go of my emotions. Most importantly, I know the difference and when it's appropriate to show each side of myself.
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